The IT Factor

Tonight I attended a dinner meeting for In-Forum, and professional women's group in Grand Rapids. The women there were very nice, but they all had one thing in common... they are climbing the corporate ladder, and had what I call, "its all about ME syndrome". The facilitator for our table lead a discussion about how important the way we dress portrays our "IT" factor. I was probably one of the oldest at our table of 8, but as I listed to these 20-30 somethings talk about how to dress "two levels up" of where you want to be, how to rub shoulders with the "important" people in your company, and how to present yourself to get ahead and stand out above your peers. I do agree, how you present yourself at work is important, and that you should always look your best, but nothing beats working hard and being a trustworthy employee. I know I do not have the most contemporary, or nicest wardrobe, I may not rub elbows with the "important - elite" of my coporation, but I did not get where I am today by "butt kissing" or spending big $$$ on my wardrobe. I achieved where I am by working hard, being honest, and truly caring about my co-workers. Its not about ME, but what I can do to make my office and mmpc successful. Its all about our patients, and care and customer service they receive. As I listened to the conversation around me, I admit I could be more confident in my appearance, and I strive to do that, but to me, at the end of the day what counts is not how high I have climbed that ladder, but that I gave my best and cared about those around me.